Here are some essays that our Senior board members wrote to impart some words of wisdom to those who will follow in their footsteps...
ADVICE TO INCOMING FRESHMEN: HOW TO STEP UP AND TAKE THE HIGH ROAD IN HIGH SCHOOL.
High school can be a scary place as a freshman with lots of new opportunities. You start to figure our who you are and who you want to become. There are some things that freshmen should know to have the best high school experience. First of all, make good friends. Your friends have a lot of influence on you and it is always good to have someone to keep you accountable. You also have to set standards for yourself and stick to them.
Second of all, participate in extra curricular activities. There are plenty of options with sports, student council, STEP UP, and others. Any way to get involved is good and can be very fun and rewarding. You should make memories and have fun. Don't worry about trying to act old and mature because you are only freshmen so you don't have to. Being confident i your self is also important and don't be insecure. People might, no will, try and get you to do things you aren't comfortable doing, but don't be afraid to tell them what you think and say no. It can be hard, especially if everyone else is doing it and it's the cool thingk, but not giving in is worth it.
Third, look to the people that have succeeded before you. It can be very helpful knowing that someone went through the struggles as you and succeeded. High School can be a very confusing time and having a good role model can help keep you on the right track
~Anneke Verhoeven Class of 2009
As an incoming freshman I was scared to death. I worried about fitting in and finding the right friends and juggling school work and a social life. I worried about peer pressure and trying to just be myself and the person God wants me to be.
To all of the incoming freshmen my first piece of advice would be to be true to yourself and stay focused. Keep God at the foundation of everything you do and surround yourself with good friends who have the same morals as you. Once you have developed a group of close friends that are true friends, who will stick with you no matter what, it will be easier to stand up for who you are and what you believe in.
STEP UP's acronym stands for Student's Taking Every Precaution Under Pressure but the group of people that participate in STEP UP stand for rising above both drinking and partying. In order o STEP UP from the craziness that comes along with high school, and take the high road, become firm in your beliefs and be surrounded by positive influences willing to help you along the way. No matter what people think of yo and your decisions throughout high school, stick true to yourself and be the person God has created you to be.
~Bailey Schmidt Class of 2009
My Advice to incoming freshman is to pick your friends wisely and also be involved in school activities. You can pick friends that you know will lead you astray from the path which God has provided you or you can choose friends that are responsible, that care about you, and will help you grow in your walk with the Lord. You know when you have a good friend because they not only enjoy being with you, but also help you through the tough times in life. Friends are there to hold you accountable for your actions. For example, if your parents get a divorce and you turn to alcohol to fill the emptiness in you life, then your real friend should talk to you and help you through it without turning to alcohol or some other type of drug. I have been blessed with good friends and a loving family that is there to help me through hard times. The way I took the high road in high school was getting involved. Be getting involved I stayed busy and I didn't have time to drink or do drugs. I encourage you as freshmen to get involved whether it is STEP UP, sports, music, or service projects. I will also encourage you to choose your friends wisely, because they are the ones that could be a big influence on your life. Being involved in STEP UP from the start of its conception has reminded me that I do need to take precautions and STEP UP, in a way, it held me accountable. As I look forward to being a freshman next year myself, I know that the High Road can get difficult with the college pressures, but I know that "He pursues righteousness and love finds life, prosperity and honor" and that is a verse that I will take to college with me!
Jared De Groot Class of 2009
To the Freshman, Class of 2009,
A new stage has opened in your life called High School. As high school brings homecoming, JV and Varsity sports, theatrical productions, and so much more. It also brings a new sense of freedom and and turn responsibility. You will be stretched beyond comprehension in school and contorted in mind twisting ways in the hustle and bustle of the high school social life. Your parents, teachers, and others in authority hold you to a different standard now. Their expectations have inched just a little bit higher. The question is this: How will you, as a determined individual, meet those expectations and make them proud?
STEP UP: Students Taking Every Precaution Under Pressure. A justifying acronym but what does that mean in general and concerning you? As I mentioned, high school brings academics and school functions but what about the social life? I'll be honest in saying that the pressure to drink alcohol, smoke a little, or just go one step further with that special someone is overwhelming. Take a look at the previous acronym again. STEP UP. My advice to you is to take those precautions. Don't put yourself in those tempting situations. Pick the right group of friends. Turn to God and other great role models. You've heard all of this before but there's one thing I want to emphasize. Don't just listen. Act. Don't shrug it off off as something, "I've heard a thousand times." I can tell you there is a reason that it has been said a thousand times so learn from the advice given down and act, Class of 2013. Be bold and strong, because next thing you know you're picking colleges and freshmen are looking up to you.
"No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful, he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it." Corinthians 10:13
In Him,
Mark Weststeyn Class of 2009
Stepping up is not always easy when the world around you does nothing but encourage you to fall. Even "encourage" is putting it too lightly. Sometimes it seems like the temptations go our of their way to seek and find you. There is no easy solution to dealing with such handsome looking temptations, especially when the alternatives seem boring and colorless. Avoiding the situations of drinking, casual sex, and drugs is not the answer either, because to ignore is to be ignorant, and ignorance can also be spelled N-A-I-V-E. The answer is not only step up, but also step out.
At CVC there is so much to be involved in. You could probably fill up your time enough so you do not sleep during the week. Being part of something gives you confidence and respect for yourself. Everyone, especially in high school, is looking for respect. Class clowns, jocks, motor heads, prom queens, you name it, they want it. So I encourage you to seek that form of respect. The respect of an ability or characteristic is the finest boost of confidence you can get because it compliments the real you. And do not confuse what I am saying with arrogance and boasting. These will lose you the respect faster than you earned it. Yeah, respect is something you earn. Use influence to better the world and the trust to honor those who trust you.
Men: be men of integrity because to live life any other way is to lie to those around you and to yourself. To Girls: be wholesome. There are countless opportunities you will have and chances you get to take, but there are a few things that you have only one to give away. Cherish and respect those few, precious things.
Do what you love in high school and if you do it with integrity, the respect will come. It is real hard to stay on the right path, but it is incredibly fulfilling.
-Anthony Vander Schaaf Class of 2009